New Orleans, Louisiana
Song: It Ain't My FaultArtist: Dejan's Olympia Brass BrandWriter: Smokey Johnson and Wardell QuezergueRelease: 1964, original releaseSampled By: Silkk the Shocker, It Ain't My Fault, Charge it 2 Da Game (1998). I love that Silkk the Shocker sampled this, as it is a testament to the strong cultural influence of New Orleans.[audio http://blackloveproject.files.wordpress.com/2014/01/01-it-aint-my-fault.mp3]I was first introduced to New Orleans more than ten years ago, when my sister left Atlanta to attend Xavier University. That beautiful Crescent City, with its living culture and magical, almost spiritual pull, will always have a special place in my heart. From the music, to the food, the history and the friendly people, there is not much I don't like about New Orleans. If you choose to only visit the city to drink on Bourbon Street, you should know that you're missing out on so much.We all know the most recent history of New Orleans; the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina, which exposed so much about American society and politics. My sister returned to Atlanta, at the behest of our worried African mother, leaving one hour before the only exit highway closed. Stories of friends floating on mattresses, as their homes flooded. University students and nuns (Xavier is a Catholic university) breaking into dining halls, stealing frozen dough because they had not eaten in days. The people she'd grown to know and the city she'd learned to call home were destroyed by Mother Nature and forsaken by a faulty government. Sons and daughters of this great land were called refugees and looters, and treated as such. Hurricane Katrina outed the rampant racial and socio-economic inequalities of New Orleans and America; birthed from a long standing history of infractions against black civil rights, (Solomon Northup writes of his experience of being sold in New Orleans, in his memoir 12 Years a Slave).Yet and still, that great city shines on. It shines on through the preservation of its cultural history, which cannot be said for many southern cities, that are overgrown with shiny, pretty buildings. You can hear it in the way they talk (baaaybaaay), the syncopated rhythms of every footstep that echoes of spirits past. The music and dance, the beautiful brass and percussion, buck jumping and Indian Krewes and of course, bounce music (rest peacefully, Magnolia Shorty). The food is the proof and legacy of every culture that's ever breathed there; gumbo a direct descendant of the West African okra stew I was raised on, or the beignets and coffee of European lineage. This is New Orleans, wearing the mask of a drunken city, but underneath a rebuilding and resilient one, its culture the foundation. It is a city that opens its arms to those free spirits who search for a place to call home, it is the home for those who have wandered only to be found in New Orleans, Louisiana.
Nnene
Name: NneneHometown: Lithonia, Georgia and Imo State, NigeriaAge: 23Age You First Fell in Love: At this stage in life, I haven't experienced true love.Love Is: Love is beyond mushy romance, it is recognizing the flaws in the other individual and still working to enhance and transform each other. It is someone caring about your mental, spiritual and physical state and growth. I think it is society that has misconstrued the idea of love, it has lost its meaning. As a Nigerian, I have seen that love is a part of life and that you can have everything and still feel incomplete without someone to share it with. Not waiting for components; there again why Nigerians go from single to married is because we look for the right person, there's no need to date multiple people. African culture taught me to also pray to receive real love and to not be fooled by everything that glitters.
Edmund
Name: EdmundHometown: Riverdale, Georgia and Accra, GhanaAge: 21Age You First Fell in Love: 16Love Is: I was sixteen when I first fell in love with someone, who at the time, I felt was my soulmate. Everyday, I felt as if I couldn't live without that person and I didn't get over [them] for two years. Personally, what I have learned from love is being able to love a person based on their faults and using it to bring out the best in that person. Coming from [Ghana], my views on love generate from my parents. Which shows me that love is unconditional and love overcomes all weaknesses between two people. But it has also taught me that beliefs, morals and values play a role in a relationship filled with love. I have always been taught to pick someone who shares those beliefs that I have and have found that dating within one's ethnicity accompanies that value strongly.
Suwilanji
Name: SuwilanjiHometown: Atlanta, Georgia and Democratic Republic of CongoAge: 25Age You First Fell in Love: 22Love Is: Love is giving, it is sacrifice. I give all of myself to those who I love and who I fall in love with. Love is continuous charity. I thought I'd fallen in love at 18, but it wasn't until my current relationship that I realized I wasn't in love at 18. I wasn't willing to give anything of myself when it really mattered. I truly fell in love at 22. Being African shaped of view of love; how I have learned to SHOW love is very subdued. I did not grow up around outward affection, but never doubted my parents loved one another. Love was shown with time and being provided for. Not words of affirmation, hugs and kisses. I had to learn how to be affectionate in my adult life and it's a continuous learning process.
I Know I Can Make it With Just a Little Bit of Soul: Thank You Dr. King
Song: Keep on PushingArtist: The ImpressionsAlbum: Keep on PushingWriter: Curtis MayfieldReleased: July 1964[audio http://blackloveproject.files.wordpress.com/2014/01/04-keep-on-pushing-1.mp3]My office is not closed on Martin Luther King Jr. Day. They made it a "floating" holiday, meaning you can choose whether or not you want to observe the day. We are an office of about thirty, with three black employees. I did not ask, but I do wonder if the other two black employees will be taking the day off and if so, would there be chatter amongst everyone else for us not showing up? Giving credit to my office environment, I don't believe so. Either way, the answer to that doesn't really matter, as this day means more to me than just a day off from work really, one should not take today off simply because they are black, when there are more reasons why this day is important.I know there are some who would be upset with their office for not closing on this federal holiday, but I've reasoned in my head as to why being upset may be a waste of time. For some people, the sacrifices of Dr. King and countless others of all races, would not change the privileges in life they receive. They would still have the same job, would have been able to attend their college of choice and would have been able to continue living life with little to no social limitations. Life for them then would be the same now. So this day and the man who it honors, does not seem so special. And it is their privilege to not have to understand the depth of this day, may God bless them for that.Without the sacrifices Dr. King suffered, I would not be able to call myself a Georgia Bulldawg. For a long time, that great University in Athens, Georgia did not want people who looked like me to walk under The Arch, but rather the service entrance. My alma mater did not integrate until 1961, seven years after Brown v. Board of Education (1954) declared segregation in schools illegal. And integration did not come easy, as Mary Frances Early, Hamilton E. Holmes and Charlayne Hunter-Gault, were harassed and threatened daily for wanting to better themselves and for my benefit. There are buildings on that campus where I toiled for my degree, named after slave holding, racist, white supremacists. Men who probably rolled in their graves as I studied and graduated. Dr. King's advocacy for integration helped that happen. Perhaps, I would not be employed at my current job. Dr. King's infamous speech, "I Have a Dream" was given for the "March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom" in August of 1963. To quote him a few months earlier, "Let the black laboring masses speak!" (May 7, 1963) and in July of 1964, The Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission outlawed racial segregation in the workplace. I have Dr. King to thank for that.There are countless freedoms that we take for granted, that came at the hand and bloodshed of many before us. Dr. King, who stands as a great symbol of the Civil Rights Movement, was murdered, but his mission carried on. Though at times, it may seem as though he died in vain, there are reminders of why we must fight on. Until every living person can claim that they are free, socially, politically, religiously, we must fight on. Everyday we must fight to remember what has been, so that we may never repeat it.
Cause I've got my strength/And it don't make sense not to keep on pushing
Curtis Mayfield was twenty-two years old when he wrote "Keep on Pushing". Released in July of 1964, the same month and year as The Civil Rights Act of 1964 , this song is so telling of the times. The Civil Rights Movement during the 1960s saw many powerful events: the murder of the "Four Little Girls" in Birmingham (1963), freedom riders and sit ins, the creation of the Black Panther Party (1966) and the murders of Malcolm X and Martin Luther King Jr (1965, 1968). The 60s were tumultuous and full of bloodshed. Yet, evident in Mayfield's lyrics, there was also a great sense of hope and perseverance. There were so many socio-policitcal landmarks that occurred for the betterment of minorities and the United States. We must also note that the Civil Rights Movement paralleled the fight for independence in many African nations. It seems then that the fight for liberation of black people was an international struggle and brotherhood.I try to make a conscious effort to never let the sacrifices of Dr. King and the everyday people, who lived and died for their rights as human beings, go in vain. So for me, taking the day off is not just some method of "sticking it to the man", but rather a day of deep reflection and thanksgiving.
Look yonder/What's that I see?/A great big stone wall stands there ahead of me/But I've got my pride and I'll move the wall aside/And keep on pushing/Hallelulah/Keep on pushing
Tola
Name: TolaHometown: Snellville, Georgia and Ibadan, NigeriaAge: 24Age You First Fell in Love: 21Love Is: The ability to be out of yourself and value someone else as important. It is what allows you to sacrifice your time and life resources, everything that compromises you for another. It can be tested but it is hard to kill completely. Being African made me stifle love at first and made it hard for me to express it, but it is also what I think makes me able to embrace love in its fullness. Hard to explain beyond that.